Sunday, June 14, 2020

Confession - Fear Of Loosing ???

As I grew up by watching Bollywood Movies when seeing or hearing word Confession only one thing comes to mind or I can only remember or relate the word Love. Specially express the love to another Individual. Now the word love doesn't mean Teenager boy & girl , It can be between Father - Daughter , Mother- Son, Brother- Sister, Friends or between the Couples. Love can be  in any form .

 

Let me get back to the word Confession . If we want to define in a simple word I can say that to reveal the Truth , No matter how harsh it will be , Either it can hurt someone or may be that person become more close to you by knowing your Openness. It will be a bit risky. It requires lots of courage to confess. We can't confess to Everyone because sometimes it's bounces back as well.

 

Totally Depends How's your Bond with specific Individual :-

  • Let's take an example if kids stole Money from his/her Dad's wallet for some fun Purpose, Later on when they come to the parents it totally depends how parents react to that situation ??? If that time parents start shouting , they give them punishment then next time kids will never dare to confess about anything and then their journey towards lie will start. So Build kind of relationship with your kids that they can share things with you very openly, If you will not Provide such a freedom they will find someone else. 

  • No Matter where you go in the world but somehow it's our mentality and its taboo that if a girl is smoking & drinking alcohol it will be noted as a crime and if she comes home and confesses to her parents or her Boy Friend or Her Husband will they react normally ??? Again it depends on their mindset…Though cigarettes and Alcohol are dangerous to health.  Accept your Loved Ones with all their Flow. 

  • You have a crush on someone and you want to confess your Love, I Know it requires lots of Courage to Confess but you have to dare to outcome from that fear. Everything and Every situation has a Two Probability. Either He/She Will say Yes or No. Do not keep inside just dare it and Say it.  Be Prepare for the Rejection as well. 


In a Fear we are losing many Opportunities as well, But give it Try. Do not lose the Opportunity in Fear Be Brave Enough to accept the Reality. Always remember this Mantra in Life - I am God's Favourite Child. Whatever he will do that will be the best for me. 


What's Your Definition for the Confession ? 

How you describe it ? 

Mine is Here ↓




If You Want To Share Anything Which You Can't Confess To Your Parents , Or with Your Loved Once You Want to Feel Free by confessing something ... Your To Be Angel Ms. Thanki is here to Listen. Lets Catch up by one to one Talk.. 


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- Ms. Thanki

God's Favourite Child  

18 comments:

  1. Soo. Beautiful dear.. it feels like we all really need to be a good listener.. as this world needs them badly.

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  3. Such a beautiful message to the world!

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  4. Great Mital. Keep up the good work !!

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  5. Nicely Drafted, So realistic !!! All have to be practical to confess every matter in this present world atmosphere otherwise mental pressure will eaten up ourselves. (see today's breaking news of સુશાંત Singh)

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    1. Thank a Lot my Well Wisher :) Yes Very soon I am gonna write about that as well.

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  6. I wann confess that I don't like to go in any marriage function 😀

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    1. Come on what's app and let's discuss the same ... bcz I am also like you ...

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  7. There is no such fear ,as we all come alone n go too,bt in that process we get attached and then detachment is very rigid process ,so thats the fear of losing ,for all of us ,@end thats hurt the most ur loved n dear ones ,u somewhere leave them or apart from journey called life for reasons ...thats the lossing of life !!! Bcz thy taught u things n emotions detachment is fear of losing !!

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  8. Rachna Sandip MistryOctober 31, 2020 at 6:45 AM

    Very true...but many people are not able to confess...and I m in that people...vl try to gather my courage and start confessing....

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  9. Once you will confess you will feel free. Just say your heart out

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